I did a whole lot of racial and
ethnic profiling this past Saturday morning and into the early afternoon. Sorry, but I just couldn’t help it. Casually noticing just how different people
can look and also move about is such a natural thing whenever I attend the
International Institute’s Festival of Nations, held at Tower Grove Park.
In fact, even before the Festival had
begun, I noticed just how dark the skin was of my new friend Grace with whom I
traipsed through the park for the next few hours. Despite being white (not sure of her ethnic
background), Grace was at least three shades darker than me and also darker
than a good percentage of black Americans we came across. I later learned that it is from her countless
hours by the pool.
Grace had recently returned from a lengthy
trip to Kenya. So, she was not only
eager to fill me in on some of her experiences there, but she also did so to a
fair-skinned white woman and a very beautiful dark-skinned black woman at the
Kenya booth in the World Bazaar section of the Festival. Later, Grace also just happened to have an
even darker-skinned young man stand next to us at the Main Stage entertainment
venue. He sported an olive green t-shirt
with the word ‘Kenya’ printed upon it.
It was another chance for Grace to share her stories.
I’m not sure what country was
represented by the middle-aged black man who introduced the first performing
groups there. He could have been born in
the United States for all we knew.
Anyway, he said he was affiliated with such events for more than 20
years, and was just as equally enthusiastic about giving praise to the very
young to the 20's set of dancers who performed from India and Scotland as he was
for the West African group.
I enjoyed that part of my racial
profiling experience because all too often people seem to gravitate toward and
give special treatment to those of their own perceived kind. Actually, I notice that far more today
regarding the Mainstream Media. In
general, people seem to treat each other far better as individuals when they
are left free to explore and educate themselves aside from any overt
indoctrination. After all, we are all a
product of our life’s experiences.
Let’s see. I grew up Jewish in a predominately Jewish
Olivette neighborhood on the poor side of Olive from Price Road. One of my grandfathers was from Lithuania,
the other from somewhere in Russia, and one of my two grandmothers was from
Austria. So, I could legitimately use
the hyphen to label myself European-American.
But I don’t. I also never refer
to any black person as an African-American, or Asians and Hispanics born here
as Asian-Americans, Hispanic-Americans or the like. We are all just Americans.
Growing up, I knew absolutely no
prejudice. But the truth be known, I don’t
recall knowing anyone other than white people.
There were no blacks, Asians, Arabs, Hispanics or any other ethnic group
in my neighborhood or school. So, I knew
very little about them and especially black Americans other than the fact that
the vast majority of them were far from being treated as fairly as white
Americans. In fact, I recall only one
black student in my high school and one of my friends was of Lebanese ancestry.
I did learn a lot more about racism
from interviewing Eric Vickers for an April 1990 Limelight Magazine article. Vickers was the attorney for former East St.
Louis Mayor Carl Officer. I interviewed
him the afternoon after he stepped out of jail following his arrest for participation
in his St. Louis Minority Contractors Association’s blocking the entrance to a
north St. Louis work site regarding lack of minority hiring in building the TWA
Dome. Well before that, Vickers’ family
had their windows broken and black paint thrown through them upon their move to
University City in 1967. That was just
the tip of the iceberg.
In those years, race made no
difference to me because I was a huge music fan and followed all four major
sports religiously since I was eight years old.
Obviously, I noticed varying skin colors. How can you not???
My favorite St. Louis Cardinals
player was center fielder Curt Flood.
Not only was I flabbergasted by his amazing leaping catches like the one
way up into Wrigley Field’s ivy that appeared on the cover of Sports
Illustrated, but I also admired the humble way he conducted himself on and off
the field. That’s why other favorite
athletes included Willie McGee and San Francisco 49ers Hall-of-Fame receiver
Jerry Rice. I also loved Bob Gibson, and
still wear my Lou Brock t-shirt to every Cardinals game I attend.
Locally, I loved our St. Louis Hawks,
who were led by the likes of black players Lenny Wilkens, Zelmo Beatty, Bill
Bridges, “Jumpin’” Joe Caldwell and Paul Silas.
For the football Cardinals, my very favorites included Mel Gray, Ottis
Anderson and Terry Metcalf.
Since then, considerably fewer blacks
have decided to make a career of baseball.
But who doesn’t love some of the other non-whites that have come along? Japan’s So Taguchi was a fan favorite here
among so many other Asian players, and that is since the explosion of Hispanic
players.
Bench player and subsequent
coach Jose Oquendo has been one of our favorites, Albert Pujols was an icon
here for more than a decade and we all love Yadier Molina, right?
In music, it was Motown by a wide
margin over everything else. I still
love listening to the Temptations, Four Tops, the Shirelles, Gladys Knight, Smokey
Robinson, Mary Wells, etc. In fact, I
still have a copy of the high school paper for which I wrote a glowing article
defending Stevie Wonder after he was attacked by another student.
Ironically, this is the week that
commemorates the 50th anniversary of The Reverend Martin Luther King,
Jr’s “I Have a Dream” speech. King LIVED
his life for civil rights for all Americans without any race-baiting techniques,
unlike some of today’s media characters who have the title ‘Reverend’ in their
names.
Another King, who died in the
1960s, is my all-time favorite male singer.
That would be Nat King Cole.
I guess the point I’m making with all
this is that we can live together in harmony if we remember that we were all
Created to love and help one another. We
can cheer for one another in musical, athletic performances and the like…even
if we DO innocently racially profile one another and see that we have a
different skin color or ethnic face.
I like to view each person as an individual
and think that each of us not only has an incredible human potential, but we
are also personally responsible for how we treat one another in all areas of
life. That includes the flawed thinking
of making up one’s mind ahead of time recording any legal matters, including pending
court cases.
There is also absolutely no excuse
for purposely causing harm to anyone’s person or property based on race,
ethnicity, etc. We will also only survive as a nation and a
human race if each of us also raises our own children with that mentality…regardless
of race, gender, ethnic origin, etc.